Negative Thinking

"The most handicapped person in the world is a negative thinker." Heather Whitestone, former Miss America...she is deaf.

There is someone in my life right now who I suppose would be considered a negative thinker. No matter what good things happen in her life, she focuses on the bad. Her job is never right. No one can do what she wants them to do. Everyone surrounding her is incompetent. Negativity permeates.

I have found that that negative thinking creates negative energy. It has come to the point where I no longer wish to spend time with her. I hope she does well in her life. But I wish to surround myself with positive energy and supportive friendships. I hope she will change her paradigms and change her thought processes -- because until she does that, she won't be happy and her relationships will continue to let her down.

I believe in the Law of Attraction. How can we change our own patterns and attract people into our lives who will support us, will see the good in others, will believe in us and our dreams and who will be happy for us when we are happy?

It comes down to what we think about and what we focus on. I have been trying to visualize (with emotion) my ideal life. It's easy for me to identify my perfect relationship, and I'm working on the wealth and physical goals. When I think about what I want in life, I have tons of energy and a smile on my face. It's exciting to think about what's coming. I keep telling myself "Good things are coming!" and I get excited to see what's coming next.

I am excited for my next relationship, for the next big idea for work, and to finish my novel. I can't wait to create the environment at home that I can see in my head. It's so much fun.

And, there is no room for negative thinking in building my dreams!